In which I can seem to do no right

So, in the space of a week I seem to have managed to screw up with two of  my friends. Dresdener is now no longer talking to me after I told him he was an arsehole for two reasons. The first was being absolutely horrible to me and telling me to "Go away and leave him alone" - auf ENGLISCH - in front of five people. The second was for cheating on his girlfriend so openly in public. Apparently I'm not allowed to say that - despite him having said we were friends/roommates. Surely a friend is allowed to say that what you're doing is wrong? Apparently not and now we are no longer speaking. Those of you in the know may think I'm being jealous, but I'm not. Having seen the effect of cheating first hand (see - Jackz's parents going through horrific break-up), I wanted to say how bad it was. Queue him being even more open this Barabend, much to the horror of most people there. Finally, I realise, he just is not worth it. At all.

Then last night I screw up with the Keksemonster. We were chatting about everything. I told her all about Dresdener, she all about Grungey. Now, things had gone a turn for the worse between the two and we all assumed that she knew he had a new lady friend. Apparently not. I felt like such a bitch, Keksemonster looked so upset. I honestly thought she knew; as I then found out everybody thought she knew. She looked devastated. After she left (hour and a hour convo, longest I've ever heard her speak), she came back five minutes later, doubting everything Grungey had ever said to her. I told her I had been the same, and said if he couldn't appreciate her for her he wasn't worth it (how many times have I heard that this week?). I hope to God that for her whole trip to Italy, she is not thinking about this. I would hate myself if I found out she had a terrible time due to me telling her this.

It's weird to see how the truth can do amazingly different things between people.